Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug 07

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1. Posted: 14 Jun

    This is the only interracial relationship that America is comfortable with when it's a White man and any other flavor it's acceptable. The Loving family who had to take their Love of one another 2 the Supreme Kkkourt to get them to change the laws to make it acceptable for blacks and whites to marry it was against the law b4 that. Since that time and b4 Black men and whites women have been shunned dogged out by both races for being a couple to this day the hate is real in regards to Black men dating any other race as it is 4 white women. They get disowned by family members , looked at as trash , or being hooked on drugs by the black men of course. When I watch Tell....LIES...vision I only c 4 the most part white men and black women celebrated recent examples Serena Williams and her husband or better yet Prince Harry and Meghan , the show Scandal was about a side piece 4 the President played by Kerry Washington. Do U think they would ever develop any show with Will Smith and Jennifer Anniston as his side chick ? Never no never. All I see from media and sites with an interracial theme is just white men and black women even the marketing and promotion is pictures of white men and black women . There are other interracial couples besides white men and....? Me being a black man who dates interracially sees also the negativity that is associated with us dating other races vs a white guy being a positive for the person they are with. The propaganda is real even when dating interracially. Next time u watch Tell....LIES....vision and see an interracial couple I will bet u it will be a white guy and black woman bcuz that's all America can tolerate.

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  2.   NubianQnNJ says:
    Posted: 28 May

    The media made up this ridiculous fantasy about white men who love black Women. On some level, I fell for this fantasy. But the reality is that most American men are afraid of what their family and their friends are going to say if they bring home a darkskinned short kinky haired black Woman especially white Women because it threatens their social status. In every society, there exists a social hierarchy. Ralph linton a famous anthropologist stated that there is a difference between achieved and ascribed status. Achieved status is solely obtained by merit. Ascribed status is what you are born into and is largely based on your ethnicity, race, and gender. In other words, a black woman like me who is independent, makes own money, has several retirement accounts, drive, own my own apartment, no kids, and makes 6 figs a year will not get the same preferential societal recognition as a divorced white girl who makes $35,000 as a cookie cutter, gets $25,000 in alimony and child support payments per year (which btw men can’t claim this on their taxes). A man changes his social status by marriage and divorces. American men marry White women because of the socioeconomic recognition that is afforded to them by society and the “powers that be.” The American man gets to receive social recognition from his family, his friends, his job, perhaps a promotion at work, access to interest free loans. But certainly at a cost. When the American man cheats on his white wife, and gets a divorce, he loses family and friend recognition, housing, his job (due to inability to afford child support garnishment payments), bad credit. He’s basically been reduced to the same status as a black Woman. This is why I honestly think these white men over age 36 are seeking black women. Because just like the black woman, society and the powers that be have no more use for them. You black Women are playing with Fire by going on the World Wide Web to profess your love for the American white men when they can be just as devious as black men. Both are equally misogynistic and project their lust of European features on black women. Lastly, via sheer misogyny the American man created the “ascribed status” that makes you black Women a permanent underclass.

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  3. Posted: 02 Apr

    I date all races. Beauty goes beyond skin. I have nothing to prove dating any certain race. My dream girl is a respectful, well spoken, tan-dark skin. Im 42, My experience dating white woman have not been successful. Respectful and naturaly submissive attitudes fade quickly. My experience dating black, asian, and latina women have been exactly the opposite. I think black women naturally are submissive and are fully respectful to their man. Asians are taught it. As far as attraction, black and latina girls are the most beautiful. And some of the best sex I have ever had was with a black woman.

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  4.   Markcdoc says:
    Posted: 02 Apr

    I only date Black women and my hope is to find that perfect match, not looking for a perfect person because there is no perfect person but someone who matches with me. I believe great people come in all colors and races. When I'm with a Black woman I am proud of my Liberal perceptions that all are beautiful and especially for me a Black woman. I love the color of the skin, the features and especially the personal traits of a Black woman. I am simply much more attracted to a Black woman, no comparison. It is not a quest but a journey that hopefully soon will end with the girl of my dreams at my side. I did not mention sex because it is way beyond that, yes it is attraction but that is necessary in any relationship. It is being with someone you love and saying to the World "go ahead look at me look at us we are proof love has no color" maybe one day when the World is more perfect people won't even use the term "interracial" any longer.

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    • LovelyBones5 says:
      Posted: 13 May

      Hey Mark, nice to meet you. Will you like to give me a try?

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    • Sweet_scent says:
      Posted: 03 Jun

      Amazing write up! Thank you so much. Love should be found with anyone irrespective of race, social status and all those nonsense.... You just made my day with your response.

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    • reallycute says:
      Posted: 15 Jul

      That is so true and loving.

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  5.   Ch3rryme says:
    Posted: 11 Mar

    I have dated white men and black men.But recently i was in a relationship that he begged for and made all promises that he never kept and then left with out saying anything and stayed away for 6 months . only to try and feed me the same old lies with extra bull crap. He is quick to say anything is a fact when it pertains to black women. I loved this man but i love me more so with that being said i quit looking for a relationship and choose to wait for him to find me . I am a beautiful black woman at 49 i do not look it . I want a kind caring man who is honest family oriented and funny and very mature. kind and considerate of human beings period. regardless of color. i like peace and comfort i like to laugh and joke . I want someone to agree to disagree and still love at the end of the day..I am attracted to white men and black men and any other man but i am turned off by arrogant self centered and people who feel entitled . you can be the finest drink of water and turn someone off by the words you speak . Be confident not cocky be open and honest and if it may offend then keep it to yourself.Know what you want. And if you care what your friends think and they influence you then date them

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  6.   nunomig says:
    Posted: 02 Mar

    I love diversity, I love multiculturalism

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  7.   Reggie431 says:
    Posted: 27 Jan

    I suppose I don't know. I was raised and nurtured in large measure by black women in Georgia USA.

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  8.   Ladi123456 says:
    Posted: 23 Jan

    Because we are so strong for everything and we value our husband also respect him, when some black women use to disrespect there husband but the pend how they brought up. I thank God for my self and I thank my parents too because they do train me,. They thought me how to Love, respect, value smdy, thanks, to forgive, cook, and how to worship God. And so on. I really thank God for the gift

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  9.   RMBE320 says:
    Posted: 21 Jan

    I cannot speak for all men (race not withstanding), but for me, the color of a woman's skin is akin to the color of her eyes, or her hair or the texture of her skin: it is just a physical trade. To me, there is no defined 'pretty type' rather each woman I encounter in passing, or if she has a station around me such as work, church or a potential date has two primary stats that I judge regardless of her physical characteristics: 1) Her spirituality 2) Can we hold each others interest in interactions. Obviously physical attraction is what is the first attraction, but each person has a different definition of attractive, so that is subjective and therefore not relevant to relationship conversations in general. Aside from telling everyone that no one holds a candle to the beauty of the woman that holds my heart; and though other men do have pretty women, mine is the prettiest by fathoms. So that leads me to the two things that attract me. First her spiritual side. The most beautiful woman created might also be the wisest or the most famous or [insert amazing trait here] however to me, a woman that is in tune spiritually with her Creator (for me and my potential mate, it would be Jehovah, or God) is paramount as I want someone that would be intone with my life goals and priorities. I also see this as important because any two people will naturally have independent paths, histories, experiences, prejudices, goals, ideas and the such and it is already so hard for any two to sync lives now a day. Having a spiritual belief lifeline, or guideline as it were, in my opinion, removes the natural selfish nature of people and offers a focus other than individualism. I feel it aids in becoming one. It is my belief that if two are joined in one accord, with a spiritual link, the potential of a lifelong relationship increases. Secondly is holding the others interest. Be it conversations about each others day, good or bad, funny or sad, communications are the second key I look for regardless of race. It is not so much being interesting, but being interested in the relationship. I believe that if there is any walls in communication, the seeds of embarrassment, or fear or pain will take hold. If these things take hold, another wall naturally will be built: the wall to protect from hurt. Now your partner is being defended against, even if its petty or slight. Free, open, non-judgmental or embarrassing communications are essential to a healthy relationship. I have always tried to reinforce this by making this offer early in a relationship: Ask me the most embarrassing question you can think of for me to answer. Then I offer that again, then again, then again. I feel if I offer to place myself in a position where a woman will feel comfortable both asking, and hearing embarrassing things from me, naturally trust will be built, but more importantly, a communications comfort zone will be established. Communications can be in non serious forums, or even non vocal ones. Talking about silly things, odd things, dreams, desires, frustrations, jokes, chasing squirrel conversations (those are amazing by the way) or holding hands. Placing my hand on the small of a woman back as I escort her through the door I hold for her. Offering my hand to help her out a car. touch ing her arm wile in the theater. hip checking her wile we walk, Smacking her butt in public when I know no one is watching, but she doesn't just to get her reaction. These are non verbal communications I believe in that both sides should engage in. To sum up, safe from scrutiny spiritual, verbal and non verbal communications are what I feel make a man of any rage fall for a woman of any race.

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  10.   preo says:
    Posted: 17 Jan

    I have always love DA white men hope God bless me with one

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  11.   Oneatatyme says:
    Posted: 12 Jan

    There is an inner arousal that has me drawn to her. A sensual presents flows from her. She is confident, powerful, seductive, caring and playfull. We both share each other's wants and needs. By being strong and caring too each other. She makes want to be a stronger man for her.

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  12.   sailor0930 says:
    Posted: 03 Nov 17

    once you try the berry, the blacker the sweeter

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  13. Posted: 15 Sep 17

    I agree with this article but I know the white members on here never make the first move and I'm not use to that! I filter what I am looking for and matches always come up that are not my type! I give this site 2 stars ⭐️⭐️ Only I am not happy at all

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  14.   Mzdasdas says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 17

    Trying to explain attraction is very tricky. It's sad that some relationships are judged and scrutinized simply because of the ethnicities of those involved. We should be careful when talking about preferences as well so as not to discount or discredit men of other races. I have found that in the end it's really about the vibe between two people. No one race is better for dating. I've been hurt by both black and white men and have had wonderful experiences with both. To say one is better than the next is cut yourself off from your universal abundance.

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  15.   luvgluve says:
    Posted: 07 Aug 17

    Some are very sexy... depending on the woman,kissing is a gift they have,leaving you aroused and wanting more!!

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  16.   luvgluve says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 17

    Great passionate kissing is one reason,the other is I love that how were treated by them,always holding hands ,feeling like a king,though there but one KING..:)

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  17. Posted: 01 Jul 17

    I feel like as a honey sun kissed brown woman i wpuld be "SEEN" and "APPRECIATED" in a foreign country other than America. Our beauty is beautiful and not the standard here. Its sad. I get hit on by like 20 yr olds which are to young which maybe speaks to that generation "swirling" is more the norm which is great or 50, 60 and older guys that had their families, their kids are ready to be bold and go after what they like. But that age group is way to old for me. Im in that generation where mixed couples were taboo. Gotta butn up my passport.

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    • FmaleLedRshp says:
      Posted: 30 Sep 17

      And this is the issue I have, these 50 and 60 y/o White men aren't looking to date 50 and 60 y/o black women, they want the young and beautiful! I am entirely annoyed by this and have made it clear- absolutely No old men. Indicating age parameters only is a grand waste of time as it is often disregarded. The same type Black man I'd date is the exact type of any other race I'd date.

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      • Clancy1980 says:
        Posted: 03 Oct 17

        What is your age parameter? And why do you think old white men are sending you these contacts?

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      • hifee says:
        Posted: 22 Jan

        I totally agree. It’s irritating when I get requests from old white men. They totally disregard the age parameters and even the “no old men please”. They should stick to women their age or girls who have decided young men are not for them.

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  18.   DANNILO says:
    Posted: 19 May 17

    Oh wow good platform..white guy was my first love but i was very young n my parents wer nt happy about my choice so i had to go black just tp please my family..n here i am today looking for a white man n will do wtever it takes to stand up for my decision. I was never happy cz my heart had always hv 1 desire..hope God will give me d one that ill grow old wth..

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    • marax says:
      Posted: 26 Dec 17

      Wooh. That's cool.. Its same story with me.. Hope to get my king some day..

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    • Tuesday65 says:
      Posted: 05 Apr

      We have to do what makes us happy. Parents and family mean well (I think), but the are from another “time zone”.

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  19. Posted: 10 May 17

    I haven't dated a black woman yet,just working on it. For me it is actually looking for relationship for life. So... I love women who smile a lot and look like they are happy all the time,and there is a big difference with white and black woman. Here in Finland anyway.. i myself look happy and smiling most of the time,in public more often than at home. Negativity is like contagious disease. Black women seem to be more relaxed in general too. Then there is a difference in how they carry themselves(is that the right impression). Black women look more confident. I relate that to many other things,like intelligence and being comfortable about themselves. I find both of those things attractive. I can't estimate how much the fact that here in Finland white, mostly blonde,women are close to 90% of all women. So black woman are exotic too. I like being close and show my love by touching and for me it is very easy to talk about my feelings. Here those things often confuse white women as well as touching (for no reason they maybe think). I am 46, and i feel that i have deserved to live the rest of my life with a woman that appriciates all that. Intelligence,including social one,is sexy in my opinion. Who knows, i might be wrong as well.

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  20.   pinotnoir says:
    Posted: 01 May 17

    News Flash! Black women are beautiful period! Men love your blackness (hair, butt, lips, attitude) Her love is strong for her man. Men care that they are highly valued in your life. They feel it from you too in everything you do. Her intimacy expresses that deep love. Men love the love of a black woman. Men do you agree?

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 07 Aug 17

      Depends on the woman,some white possess the same trait you mentioned ..

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    • At90ski says:
      Posted: 29 Aug 17

      Yes u are correct

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    • Clancy1980 says:
      Posted: 03 Oct 17

      pinot..... you shored this up very well. There is something alluring about a black woman that is difficult to communicate verbally. I think you summed it up beautifully. The black women I have dated make me feel more like a man, without compromising her strength and femininity. A good friend of mine is married to a black lady. He sums up the difference between a black woman and white woman as follows. If you are out in public, and another woman begins harassing you publicly - your black girlfriend will come to your defense and need to restrained from hitting her upside the head. The white girlfriend, jumps inside the car locks the door and calls 911 with you still standing outside.

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    • savoyboy says:
      Posted: 29 Jan

      Oh yeh babe, that really resinates with me.

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  21.   aac9501 says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 17

    As a middle-aged educated African-American woman I have noted that at the end of the day the essence and heart of an individual seek and desires to be truly loved, desired, respected and appreciated. My experience has afforded me the opportunity to have dated both sides. Is there a difference; for me there is. The biggest difference is not feeling as if I need to dummy down in order for the man I'm dating to feel adequate. The best assets (in my opinion) that a woman should have is confirmed confidence within without the validation of anyone, a warm smile and the ability to effectively communicate. Yes, I am a curvy, sassy, middle-aged woman (not girl). There is no one to be compared to or Who could ever be the best version of me.

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  22. Posted: 03 Apr 17

    Oh another thing ladies that long bushy tight curly hair just looks TOO CUTE!

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  23. Posted: 03 Apr 17

    I have only met a couple of black women, but they seem fun and not so demanding as white women, also black women have cute button noses I love, they have lovely beach skin that looks fantastic in a bikini diving into the surf, and they seem to be appreciative and respect their man.

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  24.   Ry504 says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 17

    Even though looks and appearance should not mean everything, it usually does for all us men. We respect and appreciate your mind and personality, because it is what makes all races and genders of people unique, but at the same time, we can't deny the fact that brown skin is more attractive (regardless of curves), in my opinion.

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  25.   Godloveher says:
    Posted: 08 Mar 17

    Happy international women's day to you all....on this day 8/03/2017.

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  26.   chantel29 says:
    Posted: 28 Feb 17

    I agree its a silly questiion. Its not just 'white' men that love black women. All races love black women. And its not just white men that joins this site. I for one just want to find a DECENT MAN. I don't care the colour of his skin. As long as he meets the attributes I am looking for in a partner that's great. I kind of gets put off with profiles that say. 'Looking for a black women' or 'black women are the best' as I am a black woman myself I would not want to know that a 'white' man is with me just for the colour of my skin. I want to know that he is with me genuinely as his equal, someone that he can't wait to come home to and can't possible live without. And loves uncondionally. I don't see skin colour. I see a human being and if he happens to be white then that's great. And there are all diffent races of men that are great. Its time people stop talking about black, white, brown etc. And see people.

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    • pinotnoir says:
      Posted: 01 May 17

      ahem! Many black men date black women according to the color of her skin. Just sayin'

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  27.   myvibe says:
    Posted: 25 Feb 17

    I like white guys, hopefully see one to settle down with. Everyone have their own mind of their own, and think different, so we also love differently. when you like or love something you don't ask why, is just happen!!! Black women are strong no matter how the world looks at them....we don't give up, we try to make things work no matter the consequences.......we love and respect our men.... so is there any reason why any man won't love us? In quote there is no why...... love sees no boundaries..

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  28.   gesis says:
    Posted: 09 Feb 17

    Love is blind , it doesn't see colour. Sometimes it all has to do with the chemistry between the two individuals , the attractions , that magnetic feelings that hold the two together so powerfull that even if one try to pull away it's just difficult to let go.....that the power of love

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  29.   Goodgirl007 says:
    Posted: 07 Feb 17

    I don't think that it matters. You like who you like; you love who you love.

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  30.   Elegantbae says:
    Posted: 30 Jan 17

    I have always been attracted to white men, so I am hoping that I will find my white guy here who is ready to start a new chapter with me. Maybe have mixed babies

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    • BeachBrat says:
      Posted: 22 Feb 17

      Mixed babies?!!?!! You should say that you want a healthy child not mixed babies. Lol

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  31. Posted: 18 Jan 17

    It's the beginning of the year,,,its too early to give up.i still have three quarters of patience left i will wait a little longer,,i know it will happen soon...# confidence *

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  32.   idahpee says:
    Posted: 15 Jan 17

    I think a lot of white men i have seen they say black woman arw more curvy than white woman

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    • rockleahy says:
      Posted: 22 Feb 17

      I have to agree. In general, black women ARE more curvy than white women, and that, combined with beautiful skin color, makes black women the most desirable women of all, in my opinion.

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    • Chrishibbert says:
      Posted: 03 Apr 17

      Yes black women have lovely curves and cute button noses, also they have on average the highest sex drive of any race, which means after kids when sex drive lowers the black women will have a more similar sex drive to the white man and less arguments will occur, if you don't think it is an issue, ask a few white guys after kids, or have a browse around the web about sex after kids and you will see!

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      • cherelle4u says:
        Posted: 17 Apr 17

        Take race out of it! Maybe some women feel less desirable after child birth! To me that's just an overall issue for both sides!

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        • luvgluve says:
          Posted: 07 Aug 17

          True,very true..I could just as easily date a woman in my own race,having the same affection and TLC!!

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  33. Posted: 13 Jan 17

    I just wonder why its so important to know why? Its a silly question. If people see or hear different Right away they want to know why this.....why that.....why? Why? Why? This is why racism still exists. Humans crave difference. Humans enjoy difference But to ask why? Is just silly In todays world we are allowed to be attracted to different. But need to know why. Why are gay woman attracted to other woman. Why are gay men attracted to other men. Why are younger woman attracted to older men. Why are younger men attracted to older woman. The reasons for this depends on individuality. We are all different but most of us just need to know why. If I am attracted to a woman because of her color then thats my choice.....because thats what attracts me.......I dont feel I have to explain why....Its my attraction Not yours. But My personal opinion would be. Physical attraction comes first.....its what you see that attracts you......weather this woman is a good woman or not has "NOTHING" to do with color or race. Society needs to go find a hobby and stop asking silly questions about interacial relationships. So heres my answer. Why do white men love black woman? Because we are allowed to. 75 years ago we we not. God bless evolution.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 14 Jan 17

      Rocketman201. I agree with everything you are saying. This should be a mute point by now. People like who like who they like.

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    • Dwmcsherm says:
      Posted: 12 Feb 17

      Wow!!! I completely agree with you. I'm going to use some of your lines next time someone ask why I date white women. My attraction not yours

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    • myvibe says:
      Posted: 25 Feb 17

      That's the right word words to say

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    • myvibe says:
      Posted: 25 Feb 17

      We are all humans created by one God... also we breath same air, so what's the different (color) and does it matter NO..

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    • Soulwriter38 says:
      Posted: 01 Jul 17

      Its more an American construct. We are so fixated on the outside. Who cares if you find someone beautiful and you connect.

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    • Staziecalm says:
      Posted: 11 Sep 17

      Beautiful response

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    • MissQTPi says:
      Posted: 01 Jan

      I love how you think....

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    • Browneet says:
      Posted: 20 Jan

      I so agree with you Rocketman201..love your saying

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  34.   Uno_Kay says:
    Posted: 05 Jan 17

    Just reading some of these comments and I got to admit no one really knows the real reason why white men love black women so I'm just going to follow my heart and take it from there, any color is cool with me, just want to be loved. Hopefully this year is my year

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  35.   Godloveher says:
    Posted: 04 Jan 17

    Happy New year to you all.

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  36.   BoxiieF92 says:
    Posted: 29 Dec 16

    When I was a little girl growing up in Montreal, I told my mom that I would marry a white man some day. Then I moved to New York and dated nothing but Black and Hispanic men. Besides the fact that there weren't many white men around, it just wasn't the norm. Last year I dated a white man for the first time and it's just different. How open and affectionate he was was a breath of fresh air. Granted, everyone is different regardless of ethnicity or skin color, I've just always found white men very attractive. Now having been in the military and lived around a bunch of different races, I think the elementary school me had the right idea. Now I've put it all in God's hands and I'm waiting for Him to send me my God fearing white man.

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  37.   Williamross says:
    Posted: 13 Dec 16

    Can you please to help looking for female black penpals like to beautiful good nice

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  38.   Dorothy1986 says:
    Posted: 08 Dec 16

    I joined the site mainly to find a white man. They is something that is different in them. i really hope that i find my white man who will settle down and have a family with me. Those who wait always get the best. Am being patient.

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  39.   Miszsasha9 says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 16

    I just have a thing for white guys it's inborn not that black men are not cool ....wish I will find the perfect white match someday

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  40. Posted: 15 Nov 16

    I'll add my two pennies worth here! I don't like generalisations or stereotyping in any way. So it would be wrong to say "why white men love black women" as unfortunately there are many who do not share that view. Our history shows this isn't true and even today, there is still a level of racism, sexim and bigotry that is both obvious and yet far more subtle and thus more odious and repellant. But..there are of course white men who love women of colour. Now here, that's a safe space to admit such a thing. But in the wider world it would be treated with contempt or riducule which is unfair. Then of course there's the labels: "fetish".."jungle fever" and so on. Yet no one questions a woman if they say "I like them tall, dark and handsome" or man who says "I love blondes, they're my kryptonite". Just a bit bizarre, don't you think? Anyway, digressing here. I guess I should should say why I'm here. As noted above, I love women of colour. Ever since I was very young (before puberty) I always had a special attraction towards women who I thought were different and stood out (I won't use the term 'exotic'). This isn't because I'm looking for my first 'black experience' but purely because I find black/brown women incredibly beautiful, alluring and fascinating. Perhaps growing up and living in a 'white society' I've been starved of proper contact with people other than my own ethnicity. Either way, at the end of the day we can only like and love what our hearts desire. And as long as it's pure then what's the harm? I will haten to add that yes I find WoC very attractive but I couldn't fall for one if she wasn't intelligent, kind, generous, loving, independent nor with a good sense of humour. I'm not after a trophy or prize, just someone who accepts me and would like some company.

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    • 62million says:
      Posted: 16 Dec 16

      Interesting, since 5th grade I've had this attraction for the white male. Having dated both, most of the white guys treated me better. My best friend for 41 years is white. So was my husband. Been a widow for 17 years now. But haven't been successful in a new love yet.

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  41.   Godloveher says:
    Posted: 07 Nov 16

    Hope to find my white soulmate on this site.

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  42.   Sonny5858 says:
    Posted: 23 Oct 16

    I am a white male and I was happily married to a beautiful African woman for 14 years until I lost her to cancer and I would not marry anything else except another African woman I am looking I hope you're out there somewhere

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    • kweya says:
      Posted: 25 Nov 16

      God will give you another one.just have faith.

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    • Dorothy1986 says:
      Posted: 08 Dec 16

      Sorry about your wife, have strength and be patient, she will lead you to a good person

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    • rhodadav says:
      Posted: 10 Dec 16

      Don't worry you will get one

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  43.   Asiphi says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 16

    I'm from South Africa and I love white guys but seems not to be easy to find them

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    • Doopsey says:
      Posted: 05 Nov 16

      I agree also looking for one to love seriously but not easy to find...im fikie

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  44.   master4slu says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 16

    I love women and do my best not to judge on superficial things. What is most important is how she treats me and others. I really hate fake people that say one thing to your face and another to your back. I still believe women are Gods gift to man, and should be treated as such.

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  45.   AHappyLady says:
    Posted: 23 Sep 16

    I never explain why I am attracted to white men. I just am. Period. Always have been. Some people like chocolate ice cream, some vanilla. And who says you MUST be attracted to someone who has the same ethnic background? Who made that rule? I ignore all the naysayers, the people who say I have 'self-hate' (sooo ridiculous). I have never paid those people any attention whatsoever. I am glad there are sites like these where you find people who, finally, are not afraid to acknowledge their preference. Good luck to everyone...myself included!

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  46.   Tre66 says:
    Posted: 19 Sep 16

    Skin color, body features, more willing to open themselves up

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  47.   Chris2791 says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 16

    I can't really put a finger on why i like black women. I grew up watching beautiful black women on tv like Sade, Sheila E, Janet Jackson, Angela Basset, etc. I always thought they were so beautiful. All women are different, no matter the color. I will not make a blanket statement like "all black women, or "all black men", that is basic stereotyping, and borderline racist. Yes, i do love the color of thier skin, lips, etc. I love intelligent, caring women, but if they are mean spirited inside, then they not for me.

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    • nnesh says:
      Posted: 10 Nov 16

      Totally agreed,I love white men I always admire them...just wish to be lucky to find one dome day,...

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  48.   simonjoy says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 16

    I just love white guys. Naturally,I wish 2 b lucky 2 find one someday

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  49.   jimmyjbird says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 16

    That is beautiful heart full story glad see happy

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  50. Posted: 14 Aug 16

    White men like non-white girls because white men don't really care about skin color and would date women of any color. That being said, white women are by far the most provileged class of people to have ever walked the face of this planet and all they can do is complain, black women (and women from asian countries or eastern Europe) on the other hand seem to appreciate us white men more than the average white woman (And men wan't nothing more than to feel appreciated/needed/useful). Besides this, black skin is just jummy and the sex is more fun.

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