Lessons to learn from black male swirlers

Could Interracial Love End Racism? Georgetown law professor, Sheryl Cashin thinks that interracial love is the cure for racism and white supremacy. I know; some of you are rolling your eyes. But think about it for a second. When Unc...

Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating. I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I bought a subscription to the New York Times weekend edition. I absolutely MUST ...

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...

The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships Yesterday when I read an article on Vogue.com called, The Truth About Interracial Relationships, and saw that it was written by a black woman, I admit I started to bristle. I thought it was going to b...

Meet 38-Year-Old Woman Who Has Never Had a Date! 38 year old woman who has never been on a date, kissed or had a boyfriend asks: "Can someone that lacks so much experience in dating and relationships find it at this advance age?!"

White Men, Black Women, THIS is When You KNOW It's a Fetish. How many of you are absolutely fed up with how some people try to make non-black men (especially white men) feel guilty about having a preference for black women and label it a fetish. This notion has...

Raise Your Hand If You're Tired of Black Men Telling the World Who Black Women DON'T Like. First, it was Chris Rock. Now it’s Steve Harvey. Both of these comedians freely claim to know with absolute certainty who black women want to date. Steve Harvey thinks neither white women or black...

"Can You Help White Men Ask More Black Women Out?" The note: Hi Christelyn, I was wondering if you could do a video to help get more white men to ask black women out? You see, unlike black men and white women, there is a disconnect between black wome...

QOTW: "Are black women who date online seen as easy prey to white men???" I got this question from a fan of my You Tube channel. I have a lot to say about this, and will most likely do a follow up video, but I thought it would be a good time to engage some of our regulars i...

Watch: Is "Pink Peen" Aversion a Real Thing When it Comes to Interracial Dating?! Good golly molly. They list of creative excuses black women come up with for the reasons why they can’t date interracially is endless. Add to the list now is the aversion to “pink peen” or pink ...

QOTW: Do Rainbeaus Go For Bald/Short-Haired Women? Hair is very important to Black women, especially when it comes to the issue of desirability. With me discussing the issue of hair and black women is my friend Victoria. Victoria wears her hair really...

This Curvy Girl Got Lots of Dates on Interracial Dating Central I just LOVE getting letters like this! The kind that are such inspiration to many. Well, ‘QueenEkuba', is her handle. She shares her story about her journey on Interracial Dating Central. Have a rea...

Stuff You Should Know About Your Online Dating Profile That You Probably Don't... Before I go into this, I just have to give an FYI…I did the following profile critique to use as an example, so please…don’t send me yours. No offense, but people charge money for this, and my t...

A motorcycle photo drew him to his interracial love Vallina, 45, jokingly calls herself a cougar. She met her husband, Kelly, 41, on this site. They probably wouldn't have met if Kelly hadn't noticed a photo of a very pretty woman on a motorcycle and d...

How to spark attraction So you’ve made the effort to make a connection, and it’s time for a face-to-face. You’ve got your best first date outfit clean and pressed, mints securely in your pocket. But once you have that ...

The Swirl Documentary The Swirl takes a comedic look at interracial dating by digging into the cultural shift in attitudes around interracial relationships.

In Defense of Funky Brown Chick's "Tips for Picking Up Brown Skinned Women" There’s some outrage about Twanna Hines advise to non-black men on how to date black women. She gives solid common-sense advice (be yourself, don’t be a douche and say you’ve always wanted to l...

Interracial Couples and a Word on Safety: Memphis Couple Needs Our Advice Gary and his fiancé have had their fair share of being picked on for being an interracial couple. Here is my advice for couples sharing experiences...

Guess Who’s Coming to the Prom? EBONY Magazine Releases Encouraging News About Teens and Interracial Dating In the April 2014 issue of EBONY, the publication has released a special report, “Guess Who’s Coming to the Prom” on teenage interracial dating. According to research conducted by Frank N. Mag...

Listen white guys, you REALLY need to get over your fear of the black man's penis I recently ran across a post from a “Pick Up Artist” site  by an expert giving advice to non-black men on how to date black women. It was interesting to sneak a peek into the male mind, and what...

Up Close and Personal with "My Last Day Without You" Co-Star Ken Duken FYOOZ got the chance to catch up with German-made hotness, actor Ken Duken, co-star of My Last Day Without You. You might also remember him in Inglourious Basterds. He’s in South Africa gearing up ...

The New Mandate: Black Women MUST Consider Swirling!! Longtime Newsweek writer, Ellis Cose might just have stepped in a big old pile of doo-doo. Finally, and educated BLACK MAN has joined the chorus with Ralph Richard Banks (Is Marriage for White People?...

Christelyn's Exclusive with Sexy Swirling Mom, Garcelle Beauvais! I got a chance to have a chat with one of the most beautiful black actresses in Hollywood–Garcelle Beauvais. We got to talking about her new book to help biracial children embrace their identitie...

Yes, Black Women DO Benefit from Interracial Dating and Marriage! When I married my husband 11 years ago, I gave little thought about how what I was doing might have an impact on anyone else. After all, I was just a girl, who met a guy and it was off together into t...

24-Year-Old Man Wants Advice on Dating Older Black Women Got this note recently… Hello Christelyn! I just wanted to thank you for the Youtube videos that you make. You are so clear and wise about the matters of interracial dating. It’s more about be...

Creating An Alluring Online Profile Sure to Turn Some Heads! (For the Ladies) Online dating may not be the only way to meet a mate, but it certainly has become an essential part of the matrix. And since men are visual, women looking to catch the attention of the fellas need to ...

Video: How to Tell When a 'Rainbeau' is Interested Sometimes it's not so easy for black women to recognize when a non-black man (affectionately called 'rainbeaus') is romantically interested. That's because many of us are used to a certain type of ove...

Why are Some Black Women Hating on Michael Ealy's New, Non-Black Wife? News about “Think Like a Man” star Michael Ealy secretly married a non-black woman was posted today on the Essence Facebook fan page. My girl Rasheda posted a link and made a comment about all the...