The art of attraction isn't just about colour or creed, it's about chemistry and a whole bunch of other things. Swirling author Christelyn Karazon discusses.
Video: Why You Keep Striking Out with Black Women
Last week I had a conversation with a young white man who has recently directed his romantic interest towards black women he is meeting online. He told me that every single time he arranges for a date... read more
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QOTW: My Daughter's Father Doesn't Want Her to Like Non-Black Boys
QOTW: My Daughter's Father Doesn't Want Her to Like Non-Black Boys I received this note from a fan… Hi Christelyn! I need some advice…So I have a 6-year-old daughter & we live in a majority white community. I love it. Anyway, a little white boy has a crush...
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Marriage Isn't for Black Women... REALLY?! {VIDEO}
Marriage Isn't for Black Women... REALLY?! {VIDEO} A few days ago I had the misfortune of running across a woe-is-me article called Marriage Isn’t for Black Women, published in Marie Claire of all places. In summary, this young black woman bears...
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6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO}
6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO} We’ve discussed this before, but just in case he hadn’t heard, the longest lasting combo of interracial couples is black women and white men. Compared to white couples, apparently the black men...
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Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism. Who's Surprised?
Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism. Who's Surprised? In an article that initially appeared in Ebony but then mysteriously disappeared that Madame Noire reported Matthew Knowles, patriarch of Beyonce and Solange, started dating his now ex-wife Tina beca...
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Serena Graces Vogue and Gives Us All #SwirlingGoals
Serena Graces Vogue and Gives Us All #SwirlingGoals Serena and baby Olympia grace the cover of Vogue’s February issue, and I can just tell by looking this little one keeps mommy busy.
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So... What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Black Women Dating Interracially?
So... What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Black Women Dating Interracially? I know some of the fans here are probably saying, “Who cares?” You may not, but I guarantee you that there are many, many, MANY black women who read this blog still incredibly concerned about what...
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Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating.
Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating. I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I bought a subscription to the New York Times weekend edition. I absolutely MUST ...
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Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That 'Swirling' Is STILL Relevant
Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...
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The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships
The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships Yesterday when I read an article on Vogue.com called, The Truth About Interracial Relationships, and saw that it was written by a black woman, I admit I started to bristle. I thought it was going to b...
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5 Adorable Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week Instagram is a bastian of #swirling cuteness. Doesn’t take long to find some standouts, and here’s five that caught our eye this week… . California Loveeeeee A post shared by Chelle Di Giovann...
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Do You Prefer Dating White Men Who Have ONLY Ever Dated Black Women?
Do You Prefer Dating White Men Who Have ONLY Ever Dated Black Women? White men exclusively dating black women We’re working on a new series, The Pros and Cons: Dating White Men, for later release. In the meantime, we’ll be releasing little snippets of interviews t...
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Meet 38-Year-Old Woman Who Has Never Had a Date!
Meet 38-Year-Old Woman Who Has Never Had a Date! 38 year old woman who has never been on a date, kissed or had a boyfriend asks: "Can someone that lacks so much experience in dating and relationships find it at this advance age?!"
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WATCH QOTW: 'I am Past the Point of Considering Black Men as Mates.'
WATCH QOTW: "I am Past the Point of Considering Black Men as Mates." The Question: I’m a 29 year old, single black woman (of caribbean descent). I’ve lived overseas for a few years and I’ll soon be returning home to the UK, where I plan to date with a view toward...
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WATCH: Try This ONE THING to Increase Your Success In Interracial Dating
WATCH: Try This ONE THING to Increase Your Success In Interracial Dating We talk about travelling through different ecosystems to discover opportunities to meet quality men, but let’s face it–many black women have had little to no contact with non-black men outside of ...
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Watch: White Men, Black Women, THIS is When You KNOW It's a Fetish.
Watch: White Men, Black Women, THIS is When You KNOW It's a Fetish. How many of you are absolutely fed up with how some people try to make non-black men (especially white men) feel guilty about having a preference for black women and label it a fetish. This notion has...
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Watch: Raise Your Hand If You're Tired of Black Men Telling the World Who Black Women DON'T Like.
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QOTW Video: 'Can You Help White Men Ask More Black Women Out?'
QOTW Video: "Can You Help White Men Ask More Black Women Out?" The note: Hi Christelyn, I was wondering if you could do a video to help get more white men to ask black women out? You see, unlike black men and white women, there is a disconnect between black wome...
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QOTW: 'Are black women who date online seen as easy prey to white men???'
QOTW: "Are black women who date online seen as easy prey to white men???" I got this question from a fan of my You Tube channel. I have a lot to say about this, and will most likely do a follow up video, but I thought it would be a good time to engage some of our regulars i...
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Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism. Who's Surprised?
Saw Youssouf N’Dour without Neneh Cherry last summer in Los Angeles...he is a must see entertainer...
Video: Why You Keep Striking Out with Black Women
Starting about two years ago, every woman I've 'site messaged' (where the messages were long going b...
QOTW: 'I Feel Threatened By Asian Women.'
Nicetmeetu2, have Anwar flashback....PTSD existed then also. It was all good. My family loved her. ...
So... What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Black Women Dating Interracially?
That is NC not every black male will attack you that is stereo typing the black man . I am living in...
6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO}
I love reading about “Black women dating white men” and I have decided to update my profile to r...
Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism. Who's Surprised?
Hypnotic4U, It is actually sad to read your post. It IS ALWAYS THE WHITE MAN'S FAULT!!!!! When will...
Marriage Isn't for Black Women... REALLY?! {VIDEO}
Just because you had a few bad relationships. Doesn't mean the white man is the answer. Love is a tw...
The Reason African Women Find it EASIER Than AA Women to Swirl
I agree with you on this. I prefer to be called a ''black American'' not a African American it's not...
6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO}
Omg!! She explained it all because she use the right words. We black women loves to keep our home an...
Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism. Who's Surprised?
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