The art of attraction isn't just about colour or creed, it's about chemistry and a whole bunch of other things. Swirling author Christelyn Karazon discusses.
Lessons to learn from black male swirlers
Black men have been dating interracially in greater numbers and for far longer than black women have. Historical data shows that once it was legal to date interracially (in America), they were the fir... read more
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Valuable Advice ALL Black Women Can Use
Valuable Advice ALL Black Women Can Use As black women, we face a unique set of challenges at the intersection of our race and sex. Cultural mores, seen as “the done thing” in the black community, such as birthing out of season, accepti...
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Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy?
Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy? Here's an interview with a 62-year-old baby boomer who married a white guy. She has some important perspectives and advice to give.
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Black Women: The Article on Love You Need
Black Women: The Article on Love You Need Here is the thing, forget media sensationalization and the hype. You are in the game when it comes to love. There is a lot of data out there about love, marriage, and black women. A few years ago th...
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Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love!
Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not the focal point of this article. The focus o...
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Black vs. Biracial... Should we keep clinging to the one-drop rule?
Black vs. Biracial... Should we keep clinging to the one-drop rule? Much as once upon a time someone came up with the one-drop rule, isn't it time that we made room for biracial people like other countries?
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If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men?
If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...
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Does More IR Marriages In China Mean More AM/BW Matches Stateside?
Does More IR Marriages In China Mean More AM/BW Matches Stateside? Earlier this month, Al Jeezera reported a rise in interracial marriage between African women and Chinese men. The increase in intermarriage is a byproduct of the Chinese doing more commerce in African...
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(Almost) 20 Reasons Some Black Women Should NEVER Date Interracially
(Almost) 20 Reasons Some Black Women Should NEVER Date Interracially Are you on the fence about interracial relationships. If you do anything remotely similar, hop back off the fence in the direction you came. Read on...
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Black Woman Sued for Mocking White Woman's Interracial Relationship
Black Woman Sued for Mocking White Woman's Interracial Relationship When are we going to realize that other ecosystems do act like everything is a tiff at the backyard barbeque? The New York Daily News recently reported that a black woman making fun of a white woman i...
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New 'Bewitched' Reboot Has an Interracial Component and... I HATE It
New 'Bewitched' Reboot Has an Interracial Component and... I HATE It Coming from ‘the girl who swirls,’ and the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Match & Relate, Mixing Race, Culture, and Creed, you would think any media representations of interracial couples...
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TLC's Chilli Says Black Women Should Swirl. Why Do We STILL Need Permission?
TLC's Chilli Says Black Women Should Swirl. Why Do We STILL Need Permission? TLC’s Chilli is making the black media headlines because she stepped out of formation to tell black women they need to step out of racial prison and date out. The idea that Chilli made this announce...
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What?! Successful, Non-Black Men Don't Like Curly and Kinky Hair?! {Watch the Video}
What?! Successful, Non-Black Men Don't Like Curly and Kinky Hair?! {Watch the Video} I interviewed several non-black men who are high-achieving and date black women on this issue, and all of them basically said that if they wanted a woman with straight hair...
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A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Interracially Married Man
A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Interracially Married Man I received this letter yesterday that so touched me, and I was delighted that he asked me to share this with you. With all the racially-charged rhetoric and fear-mongering, notes like this bring so mu...
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Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Online
Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Online Online behemoth Match.com recently announced at the annual “Singles in America” study by Match Group the 35% of marriages occur online. This is huge. Just 12 years ago it was 3%. What is more, 60...
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Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men
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Critics Coming Around to Swirling... After Trashing Us.
Critics Coming Around to Swirling... After Trashing Us. There have been a lot of prior critics of this platform and the general idea of black women entertaining the romantic overtures of non-black men as of late. I find this interesting. Especially after ...
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Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects?
Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects? One of my fans confided in me that she was so set on dating Asian men that she learned Mandarin and Korean. She then set out for an extended trip to China to teach English. She never came back to the ...
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The New York Times Notices More IR Commercials, Too.
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6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO}
White men are honest and open when to love
An Open Letter to Light Skinned 'Sisters' Who Bash Dark Girls for Swirling
I'm light-skinned, but have never bashed dark-skinned BW for dating/marrying WM. I say to them, GO F...
Yes, Black Women DO Benefit from Interracial Dating and Marriage!
Yes, I was with a black woman for 34 years and I am trying to find another one for many more years. ...
Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy?
No I have been dating or married to WM for years.
Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy?
I need white from age of 35 _ 48
6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO}
I 100% agree and realize that over a decade. Even though I only dated 1 white man before. But I have...
If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men?
I think u hv to think where u wrong! !but no body is perfect! !always man can left u cos small thing
Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy?
I’d first started dating out in my mid and late 20s. Didn’t really hit it off but when I was 30 ...
Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love!
I have never been worried about people and their opinions, my preference has always been to date out...
You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women
Great video but for me Colour is irrelevant what matters is the chemistry. Love is a combination of ...