Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?

Posted by James, 29 Sep

The other day, I google searched interracial sex… all I got was a massive array of porn sites (what was I expecting anyway?). Well, I was hoping to get some insights on the above topic.

Have you ever had sex with someone outside your race? Would you be interested in having sex with someone of another race? Is interracial sex a taboo to you? This is a very controversial topic. “Why the hell would someone prefer to have interracial sex?᾿ most people may ask.

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The truth of the matter is that the US is a culture obsessed with interracial dating and interracial sex, in particular, – both positively and negatively. Going by the history of the slave era white people spoke with repulsion about interracial sex - even though many white men were constantly having sex with black women. In this “colorblind era᾿, people are still obsessed with interracial sex.

According to a poll done on the blog, majority (67%) of the people that participated in the poll said interracial sex is better than sex with someone within their own race and 15% said it wasn’t better. The rest either never had interracial sex or same race sex.

Adult sex dating among interracial singles is much in practice especially among liberal communities and long-term relationships or matrimony is quiet popular. With the internet being a general platform that brings all types of people, cultures and societies together, we need not emphasize the kind of catalyst it is for those interested in interracial dating and sex… it is a well-known fact.

Most people may decide to try out interracial sex just for the kick of it or out of curiosity. This has brought about statements like “once you go black you never go back᾿ among many others. Given the sexualization and stereotypes surrounding interracial sex, we find most people… especially in their teenage and college life engaging in interracial sex just to prove and disprove such statements.

Most people may not publicly say “interracial sex is: bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,᾿ and so on. But when people get behind closed doors with their family and friends comments like “That black dude must have really been packing some heat below the belt. Why else would those white women be interested in black men᾿ or “Only white women with no self esteem will get with a guy like that.᾿ When they go online to search for interracial porn, they are thinking it… and don’t get me started people expressing their thoughts with by leaving anonymous comments on blogs.

So what is wrong with enjoying sex with a person of other race?

For some reason, people think interracial sex is exotic and daring… especially when it involves Black men and white women and Asian women and white men. It’s almost like people believe that race is correlated with penis size and a person’s level of sexual desire. But are people who engage in interracial sex are deviant, rebellious, daring, gross, odd, oversexed, and ugly as most people believe?

If you’ve had interracial sex already, how good or bad were the encounters? Is it possible that they had everything to do with the guys’ or ladies’ performances, and not the person’s races?

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  1.   GNFS says:
    Posted: 19 hrs ago (Awaiting moderation)

    Yes, is the best of all.

  2.   Jock77 says:
    Posted: 07 Jul

    Greetings Leticia. And enchanté from myself and the UK across the pond as the expression is. In my humble opinion, and one of experience of being in two serious and long term interracial relationships, I think that black is made for white when it comes to love, attraction, chemistry and (at a minimum level) curiosity. They say opposites attract and throughout all walks of life and history, attraction even if only on a level of lust, is full of people drawn to someone “across the tracks” or from other parts of their own communities. For example; The virgin and the gypsy. Just to give an example without including any racial reference. To come back to the relevant point though, I have had the two most serious relationships in my life with Jamaican women. And the best sexual chemistry and highest level of mental Arousal and instant turn-on with a woman from Sierra Leone / Austria. Black men seem to prefer to be with a white woman more often than not, and white women seem to reciprocate that attraction. Black women seem to prefer a white man and I personally think deep down the reverse again is true. There is also the familiar “once you go black you don’t go back” saying. What fascinates and interests me greatly are the reasons why this seems to be so. Would be happy to share more opinions and theories on this with you should you have any , and would be very happy and grateful to learn any of your own opinions on this. Kind Regards Josh x

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  3.   Jezzabella says:
    Posted: 02 Jul

    Reading most of these replies, it is apparent people still fall for and play "the Race Card", a highly divisive conqueror construct if ever there was one. l wrote a long scientific/ anthropological piece on this website why this is so. Short review? We're all the same race: HUMAN. As such, we can share genetic material and produce superior offspring, unlike donkeys and mules, or dogs and cats. What we are is one species made up of different "ETHNICITIES" with a multitudinous difference of socio-emotional and cultural experience. If we must separate and catagorize ourselves, the most logical way is blood type. Blood types can effect our overall health including personality. Some blood types are the foundations of humankind, others are newer, and we can't all share blood, even with close family members. So if we have "slot" folks, let's ditch the race lie, and look at other, more viable ways to do so.

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  4.   dlbdad says:
    Posted: 01 Jul

    Interracial sex makes us all less inhibited! I enjoy it!

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  5.   dlbdad says:
    Posted: 01 Jul

    My interracial experiences have all been positive! I’ve enjoyed myself over the years!

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  6. Posted: 01 Jul

    I have enjoyed making Love to two beautiful afrikan Woman more than words can describe. I have come to desire the silky soft skin and beauty of afrikan Woman exclusively

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  7.   poptime says:
    Posted: 01 Jul

    I think so

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  8.   poptime says:
    Posted: 01 Jul

    I think so most definitely

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  9.   Magical1usa says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    I been with women from ALL around the world

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  10.   EZRYDER79 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    I can only speak for myself. Interracial sex is much more enjoyable to me. But of course black women just do something to me!!!

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  11.   Leolove81 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    With my experience always having a white boyfriend and two white husbands in the past. In my 50's I met a black guy, and I have to say, it really depends on the chemistry between two people. But with a black man for me it was MUCH better, partly due to their confidence and kinda badboy side I guess. and yes...I'll never go back. LOL Sex can be mind blowing with certain people (black or white) but...you may be totally not right for each other in a relationship, so it all depends on the personality and chemistry.

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  12.   OTOSLA2 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    Yea interracial sex is a way better. I have had a first hand experience of it and it was so steamy and intense and I enjoyed every moment of it. I look forward to it in the future and I want it for a lifetime& that’s why I’m on this site keeping my fingers crossed and hoping I get a shot at it.

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  13.   Dralion says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    It would be more interesting to see things from a perspective that is exclusive of white people. I mean Interracial relationships between Blacks and Asians or Indians.

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  14.   Chris0790 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    it feels more intense and with less taboos.

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  15.   Jezzabella says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    Most people believe interracial sex is better because of excitement of being in bed with someone who is visibly different from you. That may be true, but at the end of it all, you'd better know how to handle yourself and the other person in the boudoir intimately, or the color issue becomes a moot point. I've had bad lovers and great lovers of various ethnicities, and if you're skilled, you're skilled. The skin is our largest organ on our bodies; it is also our largest sexual organ. If you don't know how to use it to excite your partner, the color, while a turn-on, won't matter much when you get to the main course.

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  16.   Doyer says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    "Race" Is a contraption designed by mankind for class discrimination, so who one is attracted to makes no difference, the only thing is "love", which has a universal appeal, knowing no class difference

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  17. Posted: 30 Jun

    The fact is where (lady) men get good sex they don't forget. This varies from ladies to ladies even within the same race. It is the vagina factor not the race's. Women are different down there. The tighter, warmer and wetter the better. You cannot tell until you get there. It doesn't even matter whether she's your type of girl or not. You can only pray that the lady you love/want to marry has the kind of vagina texture that your sensation considers superb. This is why people sometimes cheat on their partners. It is not that they don't love her. It is just that Men are defenseless against the tight warm-wet p*ssy. Once they taste it they mostly go back to it even at gunpoint (lol). Unfortunately, sex is a big thing for men. This is crazy but we just don't have the power to change it. However, men consider other factors that bring peace and stability to his life important but not a substitute for good sex. Fact! Summary: Great sex is not a thing of race but that of individual vagina.

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  18.   Brooklyn60 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    I can't say whether it's better. It's the only type of sex I've ever had! It's all I know/enjoy and all I want to know/enjoy!

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  19.   Creature9 says:
    Posted: 30 Jun

    Yes interracial sex is far better

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  20.   amd53075 says:
    Posted: 19 May

    Black women make the best lovers. They are far more passionate and intense, and their energy is intoxicating.

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  21.   C4K1981 says:
    Posted: 03 May

    Yes, interracial sex is initially hotter. Any time the taboo factor is added, the spice intensity turns up!

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  22.   DonnaNSteve says:
    Posted: 16 Feb 20

    I am a mature woman that has been involved with a few black males, all under the age of 24 but of course, legal age or at least I was told they were 18 y.o. I love the young black men I have had relationships with because they have just one thing in mind, sex and nothing less. As a middle aged white married woman, I too feel those same feelings and desires. So, when I find a young black lover, we mate with no inhibitions and I love it. I recommend it to any married white, asian, or latino woman to experience a black man and his sexual prowess.

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  23.   WM4Ebony says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 19

    That is a pretty steamy pic up above......Makes one very curious!

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  24.   Ogbejiji says:
    Posted: 20 Aug 19

    Not really bad

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  25.   Kaishah says:
    Posted: 04 Dec 18

    Color blind????? That term is insulting. It negates the importance of being Black, Asian, Hispanic....whatever. For those of us who date and marry inter-racially, we are very aware of our partners culture and skin tone. One additional comment, Most individuals do NOT choose to have sex for a "kick" or out of curiosity. This article if wrong on so many levels...get educated.

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    • Paganinifan says:
      Posted: 24 Jan 19

      I have to agree with you on the topic of "color blind". I used to use this term back when I considered myself a liberal. But the left has gone bat-sh*t crazy and I'm now an independent with conservative views mostly in the sex/relationship department. Meaning - I don't believe in "sex is just sex". As for the second part of your comment, I have to disagree (on a political ground). See, the liberals like to call everyone (white) a racist. So we DO in fact have liberal minded college students (mostly white women) dating interracially as a way for them to say "Hey, look at me! I'm not a racist". You should definitely get out more and see it for yourself. I work with a bunch of white women who chase after black men but the way in which they do it seems veeerrryyyy suspect.

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 24 Feb

      @ kaishah..Agreed!

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  26.   ed1951 says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 18

    race has nothing to do with it. the only good sex is with someone you love . that's my thoughts anyway.

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  27.   EndsExpect says:
    Posted: 12 Mar 18

    I'm going to be really straight here. I have quite a bit of experience in this and I would say that the sex isn't necessarily better, unless you have some kind of creepy race fetish. I'm not really into raceplay despite the fact that I've had several women ask for it. Now, from a man's perspective there are some physical differences. Women of African descent are significantly tighter in the vaginal area... in addition if they work the kegels they have better musculature. Of course individuals may vary. Ethnic European women are often very loose in the same area. Sometimes if they don't work the kegels... you just can't feel much. Somebody before mentioned Caucasian men going really fast like rabbits... this is why. If you don't go fast and hard it will feel like punching smoke. Penis size doesn't matter much because it would take a baseball bat to get some feeling in that situation. Anyway... if you don't believe my experience, google it. It's scientific fact.

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    • loven269 says:
      Posted: 30 Jun

      I tend to agree with this, in the experience I have had with women black or white, black women are more tight and white women are not as tight. But what really matters us the connection you feel with your partner regardless of race. People who use it as a fetish is a little concerning!

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  28.   HerGrace says:
    Posted: 09 Mar 18

    I don't think it's better or worse. Just because I'm attracted to white men doesn't mean anyone is going to rock my world. It would help if I'm attracted and have a deep connection to the guy. I'll be like jump my bones already ;)

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  29.   Geram says:
    Posted: 27 Feb 18

    I am a white man of advanced age. Falling in love with a black lady at first sight was the best thing that ever happened in my life. The universe is small compared to experience of being with her. Yes, you read that right. If I had any talent, I'd write a novel about my experience. There is nothing in this world that compares to the electricity of two different races finding each other in love for the first time.

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    • Hamedoloyede says:
      Posted: 30 Jun

      Hi Geram, I think the feelings are mutual. I am a fully grown black male wishing legally and hard to sow the seed of my linage in a White woman who shall be my wife as long as life lasts. I am well educated with good and marketable academic skill set though. (Because most erroneously think it is because of green card. In fact she gas to join me to complete my PhD program.) I am not dying to enter the US but to get a caucasian or latino or Arab woman.

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    • mosco7554 says:
      Posted: 30 Jun

      Very interesting

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  30.   GgGardern says:
    Posted: 29 Jan 18

    Interracial sex drive is very high on demand, people enjoy each other better than what people think. It's all about Love and passion.

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  31.   Mathieu30 says:
    Posted: 07 Sep 17

    white girls and black guys get the best of it while white boys and black girls lose its so obvious and frustrating

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    • Jvkswm says:
      Posted: 02 Mar 19

      Bm/wf tends to bring out more emotions, no one cares if an actor sleeps with a black woman, but if Taylor swift came out and said she was pregnant by a black father, there would be riots in some southern states. In New York, we would keenly await any leaked sex tape.

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  32.   luvgluve says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 17

    ..of coarse,it depends on the family,woman you are with and personality type...some IR LTR 'S are bad ideas too,and know who you are before entering any LTR white or black!

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  33.   luvgluve says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 17

    It's off the chart,blackwomen really appreciate they're man and are great in bed:)

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  34. Posted: 21 Jul 17

    Chemistry has to happen without a doubt but I get more aroused when it's with a white man. I like black men too but I have always gravitated more towards white men :-).

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    • loven269 says:
      Posted: 30 Jun

      Ok, so, would you say personality might be factor in your desires?

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  35.   Chocolatte4 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 17

    Theres is plenty of hate in this world. Where is the love?

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  36.   Diamond_49 says:
    Posted: 17 May 16

    I think that interracial sex is a new learning experience and also an amazing experience, I am actually speaking from experience .lots of experiences lol! The white man is always amazed at what the black sister can offer, he will cheat on his white lady just for amazing sexual experiences with us.

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      That's where it's wrong,talk resentment,that would create a very touchy situation if connected closely in your marriage:(

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  37.   luluj66 says:
    Posted: 19 Feb 16

    Not necessarily...It all depends on chemistry honesty,trust and feeling totally relaxed and comfortable with the other person

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      True

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      Good point..

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    • Jock77 says:
      Posted: 07 Jul

      Comfortable is the key word there. I totally agree and am going to put this in a fairly crude way - but - if a woman is not comfortable in your presence then you are unlikely to be getting sex and if it does happen then it is again unlikely to be an occasion where sparks fly. This I believe true regardless of race/colour. X

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  38.   MzMecka1969 says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 16

    WM are excellent in bed!! They are not selfish lovers at all and aim to please this Queen in all ways! I love how our skin intertwines...ebony and ivory go together...lol!!

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    • WM4Ebony says:
      Posted: 25 Feb 16

      And the same holds true for black women. Wow!......how I love to intertwine with you lovely ladies!

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    • regina007 says:
      Posted: 10 Nov 16

      Mostly BM are not selfish neither many WM are just too needy in relationships they might offer a lot but want it back even more

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      It certainly can,but chemistry is the real factor,white ,red or black!:)

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    • JasonHaddox says:
      Posted: 05 Aug 20

      Black women are better lovers in my opinion. I am not doing some science experiment but it's true. I would be lying if it wasn't. That is not the reason I have dated black women. And it could have absolutely nothing to do with race. But as well-I am wayyy more attracted to women who aren't white. So that could factor in in a big way.

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    • Jock77 says:
      Posted: 07 Jul

      100% absolutely right. Superbly well put. Pls read my comment above x

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  39.   luvgluve says:
    Posted: 24 Jan 16

    Absolutely!!! BLACKWOMEN ARE HOT, AND KNOW HOW TO KISS, AND MAKE LOVE!!!

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      Dependant upon chemistry of coarse:)..blondes are the hottest when it comes to eyes and hair,but trust and chemistry are a different matter!

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  40.   Gypsy22015 says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 16

    In my opinion better sex with a guy for me - does not depend on his race. My feelings of love for him and his love for me will always determine on how great the sex thrills will most likely be --- based on how you two lovers feel about one another lovingly. Leave out race !!!!!!!!!but I have learned that SOME white men are great lovers. I like too. Check them out too sisters. Don't shot the messenger

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  41.   Robby2u says:
    Posted: 09 Oct 15

    The sex is only as good as the two people who view it while they are together at that time. Some people will say that sex isn't everything but I say try going without it after you have had someone that you have really connected with and talk to me later. The race doesn't matter because if there isn't a certain level of chemistry that will drive you horny as hell when you are around or just thinking about that person (especially for women) there will be no sex happening. Some people are well experience in the bedroom and others are not and trust me that have a little to do with too. Some people are coming out of bad relationships and are desperately looking for something better or trying to get over past pain and meet that person that cares for them emotionally in a way they never had been before. Most people are starving for that type of connecting and it will make the sex shoot to the moon.

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  42.   musicfeeler says:
    Posted: 28 Sep 15

    You have sex with people, not with races. It's pleasuring one another in the context of some type of relationship or it may just be based on attraction. Some visual aspects are different but is interracial sex better is an odd question. It's sex, and it is the partner that matters.

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  43.   WM4Ebony says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 15

    All I can say is that black women move me in a way white women seem to be unable to do.....I cannot explain the attraction but it is real......

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    • BrownQueen36 says:
      Posted: 21 Jul 17

      I feel the same way. So, it's not just sex, it's chemical also. I have always been attracted to white men. Everyone has preferences and within those preferences, you still have the opportunity to meet a good person.

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      • luvgluve says:
        Posted: 31 Jul 17

        Depends on the woman for sure,some blackwomen are very attractive and I'm drawn sexually towards them,along with whitewomen,blondes especially,but trust,chemistry and love are three different things,and it's a good idea to do an ISO on self before any LTR is to begin:)I wish you luck miss brown queen:)

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  44. Posted: 18 Sep 15

    What really matters is that you love the person that you are with...that is the magic ingredient.

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  45.   decentguy4u says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 15

    I a white an and have been married to a beautiful black woman for over 24 years we have 6 beautiful children. I started dating women of other races in my late teens it started with Spanish girls. I don't know what drew me to them. But there was something. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with white women. I had my fair share of them too. It was just perfect timing the sex was no different I was ready to settle down and start a family and my wife was too. So that's how that started. I had ignorant friends that asked stupid questions like "So what's it like " I gave then stupid answers like " U WON'T BELIEVE ME BUT THEY HAVE 2 " SO ask a stupid question get a stupid answer. In the beginning we got crap from both families but we didn't care. Before my gather in law passed away he told me I was the best son in law he ever had. My wife has 6 sisters. And my mom and dad love my wife to death. So I say be with who you are happy with not who is different. Sex is all the same. It's done the same way no matter what race or color you are.

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  46.   Elmo70 says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 15

    I honestly dont think it matters who you make love with .. BM BW WM WW Latinos whoever . The important thing is that you are making love, with someone that you are mutually in love with . Who cares what race or colour we are .. we are all people for goodness sake !!

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  47.   Teeistheman says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 15

    well the way I feel is that I have never really had good sex with a white woman but I have with a black one not to say that it's because of color but honestly I prefer black women to white ones,also the region in which you reside may reflect your views on the matter as a man who resides in the south it is a certain feeling of mischievousness being with a person outside your race,or at least it is to me which makes the sex that much better.

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  48.   Mosiah7 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 15

    One thing I've noticed about topics like this is that whenever white men or black women say that interracial sex is better, they get a whole bunch of "likes" but often when a black man or white woman says they prefer IR over their own race then responders start hitting that "dislike" button. I even see it here with many of the responses. As a black man, I can't speak for how wm or bw feel when they're together but I know how I feel when I'm with black women, white women or other races. I can say the PC thing and act as if race doesn't matter but truthfully I can say it adds a little forbiddenness to the equation that spices things up a bit. Of course, it depends on the individual, as not all black women are the same and not all white women or Latinas are the same in bed either. I personally believe that if you're in love with a woman, that makes it better above all else. For instance, I've been with a woman I loved in the past and I wouldn't have preferred to have sex with any other woman at the time even though looking back on it she really wasn't that great of a lover. There was a time when I only dated black women and you couldn't tell me anything: black women were the end all and be all sexually. But now that I've explored IR I kind of like it better (in most cases, but not all) with a white or Latin lover. The roleplay and color contrasts are the biggest turn ons. But that's not saying that in every case it's going to be the same. Anyway, that's how I feel. Hope I don't get "disliked" too much for saying this lol.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 08 Sep 15

      What is your problem with BW and WM. Why can't you just speak yourself and how you feel about a topic without. You seem to be someone that is bitter about BW and WM relationships and it shows your lack of self esteem which is very unappealing.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 08 Sep 15

      What is your problem with BW and WM. Why can't you just speak for yourself and how you feel about a topic. You seem to be someone that is bitter about BW and WM relationships and it shows your lack of self esteem which is very unappealing.

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    • dofire says:
      Posted: 25 Sep 15

      Couldn't have said it better myself! Most people on here are scared to say what they really think. Those who say "black,white, latin it doesn't matter we're all the same" are lying to themselves. USUALLY when you want someone of another race you have to search them out. It doesn't just happen naturally. When btwn the sheets, the color contrast IS exciting. Sometimes the "forbidden fruit thing" DOES cause you to get turned on even more. There are quite a few things that cause many of us to reach that peak that we may not have had before. However after a lil bit, sometimes something funny happens. You actually begin to like (& sometimes love) the person you've been sleeping with. You notice their humour, smile, attentiveness, etc. At that point you become like everyone else and THEN the race is not important anymore... just the person. AHEM... in my opinion of course! :-D

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  49.   Blooville says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 15

    I'm still waiting to see if any one will mention chemistry...Race does not matter but when you have a connection/chemistry with the significant other the sex is bound to be explosive...one night or long term as long as (in modern terms) you click you good

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      True,I've been with both white, blondes and blackwomen,and chemistry is a deciding factor for sure!blonde women are most attractive in my opion,but the trust factor is lower and I never knew if she was telling the truth or not!!

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  50.   lynekiki says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 15

    I love the skin texture of my white love. I think that's the reason i enjoy sex with him than i've ever enjoyed with my ex black bf.... just my thoughts n experience!

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