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Is Phone Sex Still a Thing?

Posted by Akila, 12 Apr

Phone sex is one of the amazing things that bridges the distance gap in any sexual relationship. So don’t ever let distance be an excuse for having a dry spell. Believe me, your phone can be your link to a pleasurable orgasmic burst.

Phone sex can be both for casual and committed relationships. If you are bored at home on a Saturday evening, you can call one of sex operator lines and get someone to talk dirty to you on the other end of the line. These days, we have phones with speaker capabilities. So being alone you can be on phone with someone while your hands are free to do whatever you want with your body.

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Stereotypically, men are the ones who call these operators. And women are the operators. But with online dating bringing rise to long-distance relationships, this kind of sexual interaction has been getting couples off until they meet for a real sexual encounter.

Sex on the phone has helped couples in committed relationships stay faithful to one another. It is a great way to maintain the sexual bond while away from one another. Some people may see it as a nasty thing to do. But if you can get naked in front of each other and bang your brains out, what’s stopping you?

The thing with phone sex is: You can let your imagination run wild. Imagine being able to hear this person talking dirty to you and telling you to do stuff with your body. And all you have is your imagination and your hands…

If you are a first timer, start politely. Don’t dive into those humongous explicit words at once. Start talking about your surroundings. What you are wearing. And slowly build up from how you are peeling off one piece to another. Talk about the things you would be doing to your partner if they were there with you.

You can also tell the person what you would like them to do. For instance, “I would like you to wet your finger and touch your ….”. To make it exciting, give specific directions. How slow or how fast.  So be sure to use a speaker phone so that you can have your hands free. Do not forget to let the other person know what you are doing too.

You also have the liberty to incorporate sex toys into your act. Don’t be embarrassed about using them. If you are in a committed monogamous relationship, you are better off using a dildo than having a fling while you are away.

It may be weird at first. But the more phone sex you have with your partner, the better, more relaxing, more exciting and more orgasmic it gets.

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  1.   bobwire_04 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 17

    It can thrilling above n beyond when a couple allows their imagination to run wild. Besides that it's the safest sex there is !

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