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5 Japanese Traditions That Strengthen Relationships
When I first started coaching interracial couples, I noticed something interesting about my clients in relationships with Japanese partners. These couples often described practices that kept their bon... read more
Tips on Giving Compliments That Build on Relationships
Have you ever had a conversation with someone where they offered you a compliment that deeply affected you? One where you just carry the sentiment and that warm glowing feeling of validation it brings... read more
Why Having Nothing in Common Can Be the Key
Ever felt that initial spark fizzle out because you and your partner seem worlds apart? It's common to panic when you think, "We have nothing in common." But before you jump ship, consider this: diffe... read more
How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game
You've found someone special, and you want to make sure you're being the best partner you can be. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or deepening your connection with a long-... read more
Why Your First Message Matters More Than You Think
Hey beautiful people! Leticia here, and today we're going to talk about something that can make or break your online dating success – that crucial first message. As someone who's helped countless co... read more
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How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date?
How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date? The beginning of a relationship is one of the most exciting times, filled with bright expectations and new adventures. One of the things that makes this period especially fun is the prospect of vacati...
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Why Ghosters Always Come Back and How to Deal with Them
Why Ghosters Always Come Back and How to Deal with Them Ever been ghosted? It’s like a dating riddle wrapped in a mystery. You think everything's going great, and then poof! They vanish. But what happens when the ghoster unexpectedly resurfaces, breathin...
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Let Your Dating Profile Pictures Do the Hard Work for You
Let Your Dating Profile Pictures Do the Hard Work for You Crafting the perfect dating profile is like curating a gallery of your life, where each picture is a brushstroke telling a story. From choosing the right angle to capturing genuine moments, your photo...
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What Your Laugh Says About You
What Your Laugh Says About You Ever wondered what your sense of humor reveals about your personality? Recent research uncovers four distinct humor styles and the fascinating insights they offer into who we are and how we relate to ...
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Leadership, Social Media, and Self-Awareness
Leadership, Social Media, and Self-Awareness When this interview was conducted, Belarusian-boy-done-good Gary Vaynerchuk had just come out with his book "#AskGaryVee: One Entrepreneur’s Take on Leadership, Social Media, and Self-Awareness". In...
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The Search for a Better Way to Think
The Search for a Better Way to Think Just as our bodies have immune systems designed to fend off diseases that can incapacitate or kill us, our minds and cultures have similar processes in place to keep us safe from bad ideas and stop th...
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The Winning Example of Extreme Ownership
The Winning Example of Extreme Ownership In the civilian world, about as close as most of us get to a life or death situation is the rush hour commute to and from work. But there are lessons we can learn from those who have had to make tough...
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Where the Social Leap Lands
Where the Social Leap Lands Even when you are a human being, trying to explain why you do the things you do can be a bit of a mind-bender. Do you work hard toward elusive goals only to be thwarted by happiness when every metric ...
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The Power of Regret
The Power of Regret Regrets? Frank Sinatra had a few. We all do. But Ol’ Blue Eyes seemed to excel at dwelling on that regret only as far as he needed to. Then he faced it all, stood tall, and did it his way. And if NY...
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Give Yourself the Gift of Done
Give Yourself the Gift of Done According to the University of Scranton, 92 percent of all resolutions fail. In spite of living in a world of bottomless opportunities, most of us are also relentlessly sidetracked by endless distract...
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Why Helping Others Drives Our Success
Why Helping Others Drives Our Success The Beatles knew that the love you take equals the love you make. Similarly, the economics of relationships runs on a counterintuitive currency — the more you give, the more you get. But how do you ...
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Ludacris - Fast and Philanthropic
Ludacris - Fast and Philanthropic Rapping since he was just nine years old, Ludacris is a multi-platinum-selling artist with three Grammy Awards and an MTV Video Music Award under his belt. But, not content to rest on his laurels, he...
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How to Leverage the Happiness Advantage
How to Leverage the Happiness Advantage Conventional wisdom holds that once we succeed, we’ll be happy. That once we get that great job, win that next promotion, lose those five pounds, happiness will follow. But the science reveals this ...
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Surprising entrepreneurial truths from a LinkedIn co-founder
Surprising entrepreneurial truths from a LinkedIn co-founder If you want to get a front-row seat to understanding the mind of a venture capitalist, LinkedIn co-founder, Reid Hoffman is your guy. He’s an investor at Greylock Partners and co-author of several b...
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Lessons from Dwayne Wade's Bigger-Than-Basketball Life {AUDIO}
Lessons from Dwayne Wade's Bigger-Than-Basketball Life {AUDIO} Photo by: Kathy Hutchins / Shutterstock.com A lot of celebrities fall into the trap of being defined by the one thing that made them famous, often undergoing a crisis of identity — if not a complet...
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Dirty Jobs and Peripatetic Moments - Mike Rowe {AUDIO}
Dirty Jobs and Peripatetic Moments - Mike Rowe {AUDIO} Did you know our guest on today's episode, Mike Rowe of Discovery Channel series Dirty Jobs started his show business career in opera — to get women? That's right. Apparently, Mike has seen some s...
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Why Rationality Seems Scarce and Why it Matters {Audio}
Why Rationality Seems Scarce and Why it Matters {Audio} Have you noticed that the representatives of every generation between 'The Flintstones" great-grandparents and our own will, at some point, shake their wise old heads at the folly of youth and procla...
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The template for how to live a fuller, more meaningful life {audio}
The template for how to live a fuller, more meaningful life {audio} Have you ever imagined a life with less of everything - less stuff, clutter, stress, debt, and discontent? Try it now! Imagine living a life with fewer distractions. Done? Now imagine a life with more...
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The daily laws of living you NEED to have access to - Part 2 {AUDIO}
The daily laws of living you NEED to have access to - Part 2 {AUDIO} Want to learn how to be more powerful, more in control, and become the best at what you do? Joining us again in this two-part episode is Power and strategy expert Robert Greene to discuss how we can ...
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The daily laws of living you NEED to have access to - Part 1 {AUDIO}
The daily laws of living you NEED to have access to - Part 1 {AUDIO} Can you name anyone who doesn't want to be more powerful... more in control... who wants to be the best at what they do? I can't. Joining us in this episode is Power and strategy expert Robert Greene...
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The hidden roots of men's sexual deception and more... {AUDIO}
The hidden roots of men's sexual deception and more... {AUDIO} What do women want, what do men want, and why do their desires radically differ? Joining us in this episode is David Buss, author of “When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, H...
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How to Boss Up and Build an Empire {AUDIO}
How to Boss Up and Build an Empire {AUDIO} What does it take to be a boss? In this episode, we are delighted to have with us, the one and only Rick Ross, the multi-platinum-selling, multi-Grammy-nominated rapper, artist, songwriter, investor...
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A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation - Part 2 {AUDIO}
A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation - Part 2 {AUDIO} Joining us for the second part of the Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation is Mickey Royal is a former gangster, drug dealer, pimp, and mob enforcer, someone who not only survived under what mainstream...
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A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation - Part 1 {AUDIO}
A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation - Part 1 {AUDIO} A smart kid under the wrong circumstances isn’t necessarily destined for success. But “wrong” isn’t a word for someone who wants to survive stocks in their vocabulary. And on this episode, w...
Opinion
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Why You Might Want to Try Dating Multiple People
Why You Might Want to Try Dating Multiple People In today's dating world, options are aplenty, especially with the rise of online dating. It's not uncommon to find yourself seeing multiple people at once or exploring different connections simultaneo...
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The ‘Picky Problem’ in Dating: How to Break Free
The ‘Picky Problem’ in Dating: How to Break Free We've all heard it a million times: "I'm just too picky when it comes to dating." The pickiness predicament is a common theme among both men and women, often cited as a barrier to finding love. But be...
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Why Forgiveness is Necessary When it Comes to Love?
Why Forgiveness is Necessary When it Comes to Love? Forgiveness, often touted as "forgive and forget," is a profound yet challenging aspect of human experience. It requires grappling with a myriad of emotions – anger, pain, frustration, fear – that...
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How to leave the past behind
How to leave the past behind Your past experiences significantly influence your present dating life. Whether stemming from childhood wounds or past breakups, these experiences shape your perceptions and behaviors in relationships...
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Is PDA a Sign of Relationship Strength?
Is PDA a Sign of Relationship Strength? Public Display of Affection (PDA) – you've likely heard the term before, but what does it really mean in the context of a relationship? Let's unravel the intricacies of PDA and explore its significa...
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When and How to Say 'I Love You'
When and How to Say "I Love You" So, you're feeling those butterflies, your heart's doing the happy dance, and you're thinking it might just be time to drop the big L-word: "I love you." But when's the right moment? And how do you sa...
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What It Really Means When Your Partner Wants Sex All the Time
What It Really Means When Your Partner Wants Sex All the Time Alright, let's dive into this topic: when your partner's libido seems to be on overdrive. It's like they're always ready to hit the bedroom, and you're left wondering what's going on. Well, let's unpa...
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9 Signs you’re ready to get engaged
9 Signs you’re ready to get engaged So, you're thinking about taking that big step and getting engaged, huh? It's a major milestone in any relationship, and understandably, you want to make sure you're absolutely ready before you pop th...
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To Break or Not to Break?
To Break or Not to Break? In the rollercoaster journey of love, there inevitably comes a time when couples may find themselves at a crossroads, wondering if taking a break is the solution to their relationship woes. But does h...
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Should You Be Friends with Your Ex? Exploring the Pros and Cons
Should You Be Friends with Your Ex? Exploring the Pros and Cons Breaking up is never easy, but what happens after the breakup can be just as tricky to navigate. One question that often arises is whether it's a good idea to remain friends with your ex-partner. In t...
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Love Beyond Borders: Three Stories That Will Make You Believe in Interracial Dating Again
Love Beyond Borders: Three Stories That Will Make You Believe in Interracial Dating Again Hey there, beautiful people! Leticia here, coming at you with some real-talk about finding love where you least expect it. Today, I'm sharing three inspiring stories from members who took that leap of...
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From Chance Encounters to Chemistry: Real Love Stories That Will Make You Believe
From Chance Encounters to Chemistry: Real Love Stories That Will Make You Believe Hey there beautiful souls! Leticia here, comin' at you with some real-life success stories that'll warm your heart and maybe give you that push you need to keep your dating journey going strong. ...
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From Long Distance to Lifetime Love
From Long Distance to Lifetime Love When "NOVEEERAM" (Evon) joined our site searching for a genuine husband, she had little confidence that online dating would lead to true love. Meanwhile, "Mozay64" (Moses) had been a member for six ye...
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Real Success Stories from Our Global Dating Community
Real Success Stories from Our Global Dating Community Hey there beautiful people! Leticia here, your favorite dating coach and relationship advisor. Today, I want to share something special with y'all – some heartwarming success stories from our divers...
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Love Blossomed Under the Eiffel Tower
Love Blossomed Under the Eiffel Tower In the bustling world of online dating, where swipes and clicks often dictate the course of romance, Chardae and Johnson found a connection that transcended virtual boundaries. Engaged and deeply in l...
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Love at First 'Click': Claudy & Scott's Romance
Love at First 'Click': Claudy & Scott's Romance Online dating has revolutionized the way we meet and connect with people. With countless success stories from couples who have found love, the allure of the digital romance realm cannot be ignored. On...
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He flew in for their first date
He flew in for their first date Love, as the saying goes, defies all limits, whether it be age, race, or geographical separation. Joyce and Michael's journey serves as a heartwarming affirmation of this timeless wisdom. Their affect...
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From Online Chat to Happily Ever After: Tania and David's Love Story
From Online Chat to Happily Ever After: Tania and David's Love Story In a world where busy schedules often leave little time for traditional dating, the digital realm of online dating has become a promising avenue for many. For Tania and David, their journey from virtu...
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From Screens to Hearts: Edith and Max's Online Connection
From Screens to Hearts: Edith and Max's Online Connection Once upon a time, in the vast realm of online dating, Edith and Max embarked on a journey that defied skepticism and brought them love. Edith, known as "Yoresmile," and Max, also known as "Mxxoll," fo...
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Walking In Vegas
Walking In Vegas The member handles “Mystique” and “Solarcturus” kind of sound like superhero names, don’t they? No wonder these two clicked on our site! Ashley (Mystique) says it was “the Coronavirus epid...
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They Had Hit The Jackpot In Their Search For Love
They Had Hit The Jackpot In Their Search For Love Robin and Anthony are now engaged. But not so long ago, they had profiles on our site with the handles “Dallas75252” (Robin) and “EsilorMan” (Anthony). We asked Robin what drew her to online ...
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A Magic Movie Scene
A Magic Movie Scene One day, Veronica decided to get a membership on our site. “I was curious to see what was out there,” she says of her interest in online dating. As for Theodore, the man she would meet, someone el...
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He Made Her Feel Like a Kid Again
He Made Her Feel Like a Kid Again “I was in my room daydreaming of him like a teenage girl,” Jade giggles as she remembers the moment she realized her budding relationship with Nathan might be special. Let’s rewind. Not so long ...
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Giggly as a Schoolgirl
Giggly as a Schoolgirl The moment Daniel saw the profile of “SexyTina71” on our site, he sprang into action. “He reached out to me first via email,” Tina tells us. “Though I can’t remember what was said in the e...
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Polar Opposites
Polar Opposites Tracy and Christian met in 8th-grade math class. Christian was the quiet kid with tattoos who sat in the back of the class, while Tracy was the first student who always had her hand up, ready to answe...
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When Two Become One
When Two Become One Antonio and Jeannie come from two different worlds but are connected as one spiritually. Jeannie is from Ireland, and Antonio is from Mexico. They share the same family values and religious beliefs. E...
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Through Thick and Thin
Through Thick and Thin Bobby and Abby Green keep on proving that if something is worth it, you will fight for it. Bobby was a senior in high school, and Abby was a sophomore when they met. She knew that he was the ...
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Love Knows No Boundaries
Love Knows No Boundaries How Did You Meet? Joy and Ryan show us that love knows no boundaries. Joy is from Nigeria, and Ryan is from the US; still, they proved that if you love someone, distance doesn't matter. "I first set ...
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