(My Gift to You!) The 8 Massive Mistakes You're Making in Relationships

How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on?” If yo...

Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...

I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...

Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis? Does size really matter? One of our readers is wondering if she should point this out to the great man she just met. Here is her email... I met a great guy on a dating site two months ago and we’ve ...

69% of Men Get Rejected Before a First Date I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that if men understood women, they’d do better with women. Nor is it surprising that women who understand men do better with men.

Doing the Best I Can - Why Fathers Leave Their Children "The next time you hear about a man who is an absentee father, try to summon a little sympathy for his plight. He may not be entirely blameless, but he probably shouldn’t shoulder all the blame eith...

Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?

What You Can Learn From a Real-Life "He's Just Not That Into You" Situation Here is an email from one of our readers, Charlene: I am 41, divorced with two kids. Three months ago, I met someone, 38, no kids, never been married. We exchanged phone numbers, went out a couple tim...

Why Don't Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do? One of our readers Elaine dropped us an email wondering why women hate being single. It read: Dear Evan, Why don’t men hate being single as much as women do? I know you say most men are marriage-m...

Second Date Success: Moving from Good to Great So you made it past the first date – congratulations, honey! That's already putting you ahead of about 60% of people out there. But now comes the real test: turning that promising first connection i...

How to Position Yourself for Serious Relationships Hey beautiful souls! It's your girl Leticia, and today we're diving deep into something I get asked about constantly: "How do I attract someone who's looking for the real deal?" Honey, if I had a dol...

You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game. Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date....

You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally! Have you ever felt stronger about someone than he felt about you? Have you ever been in a relationship where you were always worried about being dumped? Have you ever longed for someone’s affections...

How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...

Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years? As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Mich...

Why Women Should Make Men Wait For Sex Now I know that writing this is not going to change a thing. People who were irked by the concept that women should make men invest more before having sex are still probably going to be irked – but ...

How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man. It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have ...

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Infidelity is a topic that most people have a problem dealing with. Well, one of our readers met this very nice man recently. Unfortunately, he openly admitted that the reason he is separated from the...

You Have To Kiss A Lot of Princes Before You Marry The Frog You’ve been through a LOT when it comes to love. You’ve dated guys with whom you felt the most incredible connection, only to find out that they weren’t serious about you. You’ve dated guys wi...

"You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!" My dating client, Mary L., has been happily dating John since our sessions and came back to us with a grateful note. Let's see what she said. "I’ve been thinking about our coaching so much lately! ...

How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later? One of our readers was concerned about how to respond to a guy who has disappeared. Not just the kind that disappears for months... just the kind who contacts you after a week or so. There goes... "I ...

How to Handle First Date Nerves Like a Pro Hey beautiful souls! It's your girl Leticia here, and honey, let me tell you something – I've been there. That heart-pounding, palm-sweating, "What if they don't like me?" feeling that hits you righ...

Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...

How Character, Income and Education Impact Your Choices - And Your Success Studies since the Stanford marshmallow experiment have shown that people with the ability to delay gratification (study instead of party, abstain from sex or wear condoms, not abuse drugs or alcohol),...

Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man's Confidence? One of our readers realized that the man she is dating has no confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible. She has resorted to faking it. Should she?

You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening again. And to protect yourself from being hurt by a...

The Most Important Dating Advice You'll Ever Hear - Don't Do Anything One of our readers, Robyn, dropped us an email which read: I am a 33 year old single woman. I seem to always attract “great guys”, and we always have a lot of fun. But anytime I want to gently “...

How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...

My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry? Margaret has niggling fears over her boyfriend's admission that he wasn’t ready when he asked her to be his girlfriend, and that he had doubts even after he had asked her during the early days. Is t...

I'm a Little Lonely. Most Men Are REALLY Lonely. Want to know why guys bear their souls on the first date and want to marry you on the second date? Look no further than the loneliness epidemic

Men aren’t about looks but about feeling Looks are everything to a man. That is what we women believe. It’s the reason we spend huge chunks of our salaries on cosmetics, surgeries… It’s the reason most of us have self-esteem issues. We...

Fall in Love This Fall: 15 Autumn Date Ideas That Spark Real Connection Hey beautiful souls! It's your girl Leticia, and can we talk about how magical autumn is for dating? There's something about those crisp leaves, cozy sweaters, and that golden hour light that just mak...

Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s? One of our male readers was wondering... "I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that ...

Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex. Laura has been dating online for a while now and has started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted her. They seem not to want anything serious.

How Risky Is It to Break the Commitment First Rule and Have Sex? One of our readers says: "Waiting to have sex until I’m committed to someone is taking so long (it’s so hard to say that out loud – gosh)."

Building Confidence for Interracial Dating Hey beautiful souls! It's your girl Leticia here, and today we need to have a real heart-to-heart about something I see affecting so many of my clients – confidence when it comes to interracial dati...

Fall in Love This Fall: 15 Autumn Date Ideas That Spark Real Connection Hey beautiful souls! It's your girl Leticia, and can we talk about how magical autumn is for dating? There's something about those crisp leaves, cozy sweaters, and that golden hour light that just ...

My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do? How does one deal with a man who has a history of having sex with prostitutes? Should one just let the past go? Well, here is one an email from one of our concerned readers... I met a man online la...

About Evan Marc Katz Hi, I’m Evan Marc Katz. I’m a dating coach who specializes in helping smart, strong, successful women understand and connect with men. I have over 10 million blog readers, over 70,000 newslett...

Why Women Feel Guilty About Earning More Money Today, we’re going to explore the pull between women being proud of their career success and feeling guilty about out-earning their male partners.

Can I Have a Lustful Relationship with a Long-Term Partner? Evan answers: Why does it have to be a lustful relationship versus a long-term relationship? Why does one need to negate another?