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Why Don't Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do? One of our readers Elaine dropped us an email wondering why women hate being single. It read: Dear Evan, Why don’t men hate being single as much as women do? I know you say most men are marriage-m...

Can I Have a Lustful Relationship with a Long-Term Partner? Evan answers: Why does it have to be a lustful relationship versus a long-term relationship? Why does one need to negate another?

How to Avoid Dating a Narcissist: Protect Your Heart Before You Fall Let me tell you something real quick. I've been coaching singles in the dating game for years now, and if there's one thing that breaks my heart over and over, it's watching beautiful souls get tangle...

How Risky Is It to Break the Commitment First Rule and Have Sex? One of our readers says: "Waiting to have sex until I’m committed to someone is taking so long (it’s so hard to say that out loud – gosh)."

My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do? How does one deal with a man who has a history of having sex with prostitutes? Should one just let the past go? Well, here is one an email from one of our concerned readers... I met a man online la...

Doing the Best I Can - Why Fathers Leave Their Children "The next time you hear about a man who is an absentee father, try to summon a little sympathy for his plight. He may not be entirely blameless, but he probably shouldn’t shoulder all the blame eith...

My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry? Margaret has niggling fears over her boyfriend's admission that he wasn’t ready when he asked her to be his girlfriend, and that he had doubts even after he had asked her during the early days. Is t...

Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years? As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Mich...

Dating a Single Parent When You're Child-Free: What You Need to Know Hey loves, it's Leticia here! Today we're diving into something I get asked about all the time: "Leticia, I've met someone amazing, but they have kids and I don't. Can this really work?" Honey, let m...

I'm a Little Lonely. Most Men Are REALLY Lonely. Want to know why guys bear their souls on the first date and want to marry you on the second date? Look no further than the loneliness epidemic

Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You're Looking for a Long Term Relationship? Melanie is going through a phase where she just wants to have hookups or just get laid. Here is my advice for her...

You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening again. And to protect yourself from being hurt by a...

Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?

Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me? Katie was in what she thought was a great relationship. Until it suddenly ended after the guy kissed him goodbye. Little did she know it was the last. Here is her story...

Navigating Coparenting: When Your Partner Shares Kids with an Ex Hey loves, it's Leticia here, and today we're diving into something real that doesn't get talked about enough in the dating world. So you've met someone amazing—they check all your boxes, the chemis...

Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...

I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...

Why Women Feel Guilty About Earning More Money Today, we’re going to explore the pull between women being proud of their career success and feeling guilty about out-earning their male partners.

Overcoming Dating Anxiety: Practical Tips Hey loves, it's Leticia here! Let me keep it real with you for a second—I used to get so nervous before dates that I'd literally rehearse conversations in the mirror. I was a HOT MESS! My palms woul...

Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man's Confidence? One of our readers realized that the man she is dating has no confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible. She has resorted to faking it. Should she?

Men aren’t about looks but about feeling Looks are everything to a man. That is what we women believe. It’s the reason we spend huge chunks of our salaries on cosmetics, surgeries… It’s the reason most of us have self-esteem issues. We...

How Character, Income and Education Impact Your Choices - And Your Success Studies since the Stanford marshmallow experiment have shown that people with the ability to delay gratification (study instead of party, abstain from sex or wear condoms, not abuse drugs or alcohol),...

Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex. Laura has been dating online for a while now and has started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted her. They seem not to want anything serious.

You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally! Have you ever felt stronger about someone than he felt about you? Have you ever been in a relationship where you were always worried about being dumped? Have you ever longed for someone’s affections...

How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man. It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have ...

Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...

How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...

About Evan Marc Katz Hi, I’m Evan Marc Katz. I’m a dating coach who specializes in helping smart, strong, successful women understand and connect with men. I have over 10 million blog readers, over 70,000 newslett...

Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s? One of our male readers was wondering... "I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that ...

The Most Important Dating Advice You'll Ever Hear - Don't Do Anything One of our readers, Robyn, dropped us an email which read: I am a 33 year old single woman. I seem to always attract “great guys”, and we always have a lot of fun. But anytime I want to gently “...

"You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!" My dating client, Mary L., has been happily dating John since our sessions and came back to us with a grateful note. Let's see what she said. "I’ve been thinking about our coaching so much lately! ...

You Have To Kiss A Lot of Princes Before You Marry The Frog You’ve been through a LOT when it comes to love. You’ve dated guys with whom you felt the most incredible connection, only to find out that they weren’t serious about you. You’ve dated guys wi...

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Infidelity is a topic that most people have a problem dealing with. Well, one of our readers met this very nice man recently. Unfortunately, he openly admitted that the reason he is separated from the...

How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later? One of our readers was concerned about how to respond to a guy who has disappeared. Not just the kind that disappears for months... just the kind who contacts you after a week or so. There goes... "I ...

Festive Date Ideas to Spark Romance This Holiday Season The holiday season is pure magic, honey! There's something about twinkling lights, cozy sweaters, and the smell of hot cocoa that just makes everything feel more romantic. Whether you're planning a fi...

You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game. Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date....

69% of Men Get Rejected Before a First Date I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that if men understood women, they’d do better with women. Nor is it surprising that women who understand men do better with men.

How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on?” If yo...

Should You Be Picky When Looking for Love? Let's Talk About It Honey, let me tell you something I learned after years of coaching singles through their dating journeys – this whole "picky" conversation? It's way more nuanced than folks want to admit. So grab yo...

Become the CEO of your Love Life with Evan Marc Katz Dating Coaching with Evan Anyone can go to the gym. Those who want the best results work with a personal trainer. I am a personal trainer for people who want to fall in love. My mission is to give in...

Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last? I don’t mean to pound the drum like this. Honestly. I don’t look for these articles; they just tend to find me. Thanks to living in the Information Age and the advent of Big Data, we now have the ...

What You Can Learn From a Real-Life "He's Just Not That Into You" Situation Here is an email from one of our readers, Charlene: I am 41, divorced with two kids. Three months ago, I met someone, 38, no kids, never been married. We exchanged phone numbers, went out a couple tim...