I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...

A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Interracially Married Man I received this letter yesterday that so touched me, and I was delighted that he asked me to share this with you. With all the racially-charged rhetoric and fear-mongering, notes like this bring so mu...

How to Break Out of Your Dating Rut {VIDEO} I want to ask you something, and it’s a little personal. Well, two things actually... #1 Are you single? #2 On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you currently with your dating life? The reason I ask...

How to Finally Stop the Agony of Waiting for His Text {VIDEO} Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from him ;) You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message he sends is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict....

Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Online Online behemoth Match.com recently announced at the annual “Singles in America” study by Match Group the 35% of marriages occur online. This is huge. Just 12 years ago it was 3%. What is more, 60...

Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men I’ve gotten about a dozen messages about a new interracial dating book in circulation. Northwestern University professor, Cheryl Judice, author of Interracial Relationships with Black Women and Whit...

Have The Best Sex Ever, With These Words...{VIDEO} (What Men Really Want To Hear) Do you ever wish your man would talk more dirty to you? Ever wondered how to get him to act out your fantasies? I’m always shocked by how many women avoid having the...

Critics Coming Around to Swirling... After Trashing Us. There have been a lot of prior critics of this platform and the general idea of black women entertaining the romantic overtures of non-black men as of late. I find this interesting. Especially after ...

Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects? One of my fans confided in me that she was so set on dating Asian men that she learned Mandarin and Korean. She then set out for an extended trip to China to teach English. She never came back to the ...

Do You Worry He's "Not Sure" About You? Do This... {VIDEO} I’m a big believer these days in the power of "NO!". What we decide to say “NO” to in relationships is often as important what we say yes to. I’ve seen thousands of women saying yes to all th...